Monday, December 5, 2011

Update!!


Well, it has been over a month since I last wrote, so I guess that I can write a new entry now... haha I really didn't mean to wait so long for the next entry, but I didn't have much to write about. I didn't think that everyone wanted to hear how I haven't been feeling well and that my bed and I have been best friends. But, on the up side, I am starting to feel a little better now. I still don't feel great, but the nausea has lessened and I am actually feeling like I can get up and get things done, which I know will make Gus happy! haha I think he is tired of cleaning the kitchen and being in charge of all the meals and anything else I need him to do while I lay in bed. I felt bad, but I just couldn't do it. I started feeling a tiny bit better the week of Thanksgiving, but on Thanksgiving Day I had so much acid in my stomach that I just didn't feel good and we didn't even get over to my parent's house until after 1pm. But, we stopped and got some Pepcid Complete from Walgreens (I hate that stores are opened on holidays, making others have to work, but I sure was glad that they were opened!) and I felt quite a bit better after that. Thanksgiving was really good. My Mom and sister did most of the food. I made the stuffing- it's my job and let me tell you, it sure is hard to open that box up and mix everything together! ;) haha That reminds me. A couple of days before Thanksgiving my younger brother comes up to me and tells me how much he likes my stuffing, it is so much better than that boxed kind that some people make... my sister, mom and I started laughing because that is the only kind we usually make for Thanksgiving... haha Anyways....

The Saturday after Thanksgiving Gus and I went with my family and we picked out our Christmas trees. We ALWAYS get real trees in my family, none of this fake stuff. When I was little we use to actually cut them down ourselves too- then we moved to AZ and then to NM and this became a little harder and we just went to tree lots- with my Dad protesting of course. Gus, on the other hand, always had fake trees; I guess real trees aren't really that common in Brazil. Anyway, I told Gus that we were getting a real tree, no ifs, ands, or buts! ;) We picked out a cute little 4 foot one and then we put it on one of our end tables and it is the height of a regular sized one! Our apartment is pretty small and so we don't have many places it could go, but we both really like it. Then we decorated it- after we bought lights and a star of course! We had some ornaments that we had gotten last year (we were living with my Grandparent's then though and just used their tree and didn't have one of our own) and some that I had received throughout my life, and of course, our first Christmas together ornament. Then I put up some Christmas decorations that I had been given in Christmas’s past.  I also have a village to set up, but we are trying to figure out how to put it up still since we don’t have too much room. Have I mentioned that I love Christmas? This will be our first Christmas together in our own little place and I’m so excited! (Yes, I know, technically it is our second Christmas together, but first in our own little place!)

And I just thought that I would throw in some more baby news. We had our second doctors appointment the other day and we got to hear the heartbeat again and it was going strong! I had lost some more weight though (not that much, a whole 2 pounds!) but the Dr said that she didn’t want me loosing anymore weight  and gave me an anti-nausea prescriptions, but I haven’t used it yet- I don’t want to take stuff if I don’t have too. But here is the kicker! I asked when they usually do the gender ultrasounds (I had heard some do it at 16 weeks, some 20, so I was just curious) and you know what the nurse said? “We don’t.” What??? She said that the insurance doesn’t pay for it; they only pay for ultrasounds if they suspect there might be a problem. What?? I thought that now days everyone did the gender ultrasound. My mom had it for all four of us and that was about 27 years ago (starting with my brother). Weird.  But, I have a friend whose mother –in-law does ultrasounds around here and she told me that she does ultrasounds for all of her friends and can do it for me, but she just can’t do anything official or give you the pictures or anything else. So, at least hopefully we will still get to see something even if we don’t have “official” results. I was really shocked. Oh well, I guess that’s how things go. I have a few more weeks to worry about it since I’m still only about 13 weeks. I did get more of an official due date though- June 11th. My little brother’s birthday is on the 13th though and he hopes the baby comes then. I thought 6-6-12 sounded good (although, my sister informed me that June 6th is the birthday of her best friend, who died a few years ago :(). And, something else I’m sure you have all been dying to know… I feel so fat! Haha and since I have nice large hips, my baby has decided it likes it there, for now I’m sure, but that makes pants feel tight- and the elastic (like on my pajamas and underwear) really makes me feel squished! And there really isn’t anywhere to get maternity clothes around here. (You would think there would be with all the births around here, but most are teenagers and I guess that they just buy clothes a little bit bigger and my brother informed me that they just let their bellies hang out… eew)  And something else that makes me sick- my Sister-in-law is due any day now (they will induce her on the 10th if she doesn’t have her baby by then) and she is still wearing pre-pregnancy pants… I feel so fat!!! But I love our Baby anyway and Gus says I’m still hot… ;) Well, this post is getting long. I guess I shall end. Merry Christmas and Happy New Years, if I don’t write before then, I make no guarantees! ;)

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Baby!!

Well, Since it's on Facebook I guess I can blog about it now. I'm pregnant and Gus and I are sooo excited!! We found out a few weeks ago when I went to the Dr's because I wasn't feeling the best- turns out I had a bladder infection and am pregnant!! Yesterday we went to our first Ob-gyn appointment. We were thinking that we were about 10 or so weeks but the Dr. couldn't hear the heartbeat and sent us to get an ultrasound. The U/S tech said that it looks like I am about 8.2 weeks along and the heart was beating at 196 bpm. We got to hear it and it sounded like a washing machine just chugging along! We also got to SEE the heart beating for a second or too- the Tech didn't stay in any one position too long and so everything was real quick. The "morning sickness" hit about a week after we found out and has gotten worse every week since then. I feel like crap! Luckily I haven't thrown up "too" much... I have a lot of nausea and NOTHING sounds good though. and Everything smells horrible!!  I don't sleep well and last night I woke up multiple times just because my stomach wasn't happy.... :( I hate feeling sick... But I am happy that everything looked good with our baby! We are putting the due date around the end of May beginning of June, so the baby will be almost exactly a year younger then it's cousin (My brother's son) who was born May 28, 2011. and just a few months younger then it's cousin (Gus's sister) who is due in about 6 weeks! Well, that's all I can think of right now and I don't feel good... I don't know how people do this and work too... ick!


I always had a hard time reading the ultrasounds- but I think this one is pretty good for just over 8 weeks- the baby is in the middle with it's head on the right and body on the left in the middle of the dark spot!


Monday, October 24, 2011

October post...

So, I guess I failed at writing a blog in September, and almost for October too- I couldn't let it get away, but I haven't had a whole lot to say. In September I worked 40hr weeks- which I know is normal for most people, but was exhausting for me. So, we didn't do much. Gus and I went to work at 8 every morning and we had lunch at 12 (usually, although he had a 30 min. lunch and I had an hour) then he got off around 2:30 (sometimes later depending on if he had meetings or needed to help other people) and then I got off at 5 and we came home and did nothing. Well- some days of the week. ;) On Tue and Thur Gus is still cleaning our friend's office and then on Wed. I had mutual and Gus had meetings. But that is all going to change and this week will be my last week of work, period. I thought that I would be going back to my 15 hours a week once I was done helping answering phones, but I found out on Friday afternoon (at 4ish) that this fiscal year is coming to an end and that they don't have money in the budget for me... :( I have a lot I could say about this whole thing, but I am choosing to try to be more positive about it and so therefore, I must not say anymore... ;)
       This Thursday is Gus's birthday. He is going to be 27 on the 27th. Wow, he's sooo old! haha I just love him! and he's soooo stinkin cute too! We probably won't do to much though cuz he isn't big on celebrating birthdays- especially his birthday. Oh, and today is my Grandma's 86th birthday- now talk about old! haha It is hard watching my grandparents get older. I love them soo much though and am so glad that I have been able to know and be close to both sets of grandparents and even know some of my great grandparents. I just love my family. Well, that's all I have to say for now............. :)

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Work

Well, I guess the most exciting thing that has happened lately is that I started working full time- temporarily. At work there were some ladies that went on maternity leave and left a vacancy... So, I was asked if I would be willing to fill in until they got back- so for about 2 months. I am now the operator. I get to direct the calls, and sell cheese to the employees and whatever else they need me to do. It is pretty good, besides the fact that I have never liked answering phones... We needed the money though, so I said yes. It makes me tired. I know it is normal for people all over the world, but I don't really enjoy working full time. I'm glad that my husband isn't making me. He says that I can do whatever I want and we will try to make everything work. If only now he could start working full time and we could get benefits... But over all, things are really going pretty good. I have the best husband ever and I love him soooooo much! Thanks for being the best Amor!

Sunday, July 31, 2011

One Year!!!!

Happy Anniversary!!! I have been married to the best husband for one whole year now! Gus truly is everything I wanted, hoped for, dreamed of and more! I honestly thought that maybe I wanted to much in a guy- and along came Gus, meu Amor. He truly has made me so happy and I am glad that I have the opportunity to spend all eternity with him. I can't imagine life with out him. I just hope that I can be even better for him- he deserves it. He is so patient with me and loving- even when I am depressed, grouchy, and not very nice... This year has flown by. I told Gus that I think the time between when we first started dating (Feb 14, 2010) to the day that we got married (July 31, 2010) seemed a lot longer then this past year with him. And I bet the years will just keep flying by... Thank you Gus!!!! I love you sooo much!! Voce eh tudo pra mim! Te amo Amor!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Apartment!!!!

Well, it happened, we got the apartment!!!! We will be moving-in this week and we are very excited. Happy almost one year anniversary to us! It is a cute one bedroom place- not too big, but it will do. The bathroom is nice and big- kitchen is about the same size though. So while the size is big for a bathroom, it isn't very big for a kitchen... but it does have a dishwasher, stove, and smaller then normal fridge, and a bar that separates the front room. The bedroom has a huge closet in it with shelves on one end. The front room has a big bay-ish like window, and the view is great! We get to see the wall across the walk way!! haha Maybe pictures will be coming... ;)